Thursday, January 13, 2011

What to do

It's interesting to know how to act in certain situations, have you ever noticed that people change slightly depending on who they are around. Just a thought. Like the old question, why do guys act differently around their friends? I guess in that case it's just important to figure out if its a big enough issue to effect the way you feel about the guy. Usually it's not a make it or break it difference, but it is definitely an attribute to be aware of. I guess the main question I'm wondering is how exactly do you act around someone you've recently become "just friends" with. Like are you really allowed to treat them as a friend? It's not like you can tell them about your new crushes or anything. But also just in general if your walking to a class, and you see that they are walking ahead of you, what do you do? Should you quicken your pace and catch up with them, seeing as that's what you would do with any friend, but then be at a position where observers wonder if your back "together". Or do you continue to walk at an average pace, and even go a little slower to ensure that they don't happen to notice you causing awkwardness, and then seem rude? Interesting thought. Also on the simple side, if they log on facebook how soon can you say hi? Good question. I know. Well and if you say let's just be friends it is kind of ironic because shouldn't all relationships be built on a great friendship? So is it really asking "Hey can we start our relationship from step one?" Hm, doesn't really work that way. This is all hypothetical of course. Ya right.

2 comments:

  1. I understand your position.
    It is a difficult question that anyone and everyone faces.
    I guess it depends on what kind of a relationship (specifically) you want with that person and how you are going to keep that relationship.

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  2. It is definitely difficult to decide what type of relationship you want with someone. Like friendship relationship, acquintance relationship, or more.

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